Half of separated parents say they come into conflict with their former partners as a result of trying to make plans over the summer holidays, with a quarter abandoning holiday plans altogether, according to research conducted by Slater & Gordon.
A survey of 2,000 adults explored challenges faced by separated or divorced parents when making holiday arrangements. The results showed more than a quarter (27%) report difficulties when making family holiday plans, with over half (55%) saying the process causes them stress or anxiety. Exactly half of those questioned said these tensions resulted in open conflict, which parents acknowledged had an impact on their children.
One in three (34%) parents believe holiday disputes have a negative effect on their children. More than a third (36%) of parents report disagreements over the type of holiday being proposed, while a similar proportion (34%) struggle to agree on travel dates. The firm said the research showed “underlying issues also appear to be a driver of disputes”, with 57% of parents saying challenges are due to ongoing tension with their former partner.
Slater & Gordon senior associate solicitor Andrew Ormrod said: “As highlighted by the survey, not all holiday arrangements are straightforward for separated or divorced families. They may face multiple obstacles on a yearly basis, creating conflict, stress and uncertainty for everyone involved. From a legal perspective, the needs of the children are the foremost priority in these situations. Their happiness and wellbeing should be central to any decision, including holiday arrangements.
“Many disputes occur when plans are made at the last minute, expectations are unclear, or costs have not been discussed in advance. Early communication can help parents agree arrangements, manage expectations and reduce the likelihood of conflict.”
